THE SACRAMENT OF MATRIMONY

In the Catholic faith, marriage is more than a beautiful ceremony—it is a sacrament. A sacrament is a sacred and visible sign of God's grace, and in the case of marriage, it signifies the lifelong covenant between a couple and God. During the ceremony, we will exchange vows, seeking God’s blessing and grace as we begin our married life together.

Our wedding will take place during a Catholic Mass, which includes prayers, Scripture readings, and the Eucharist (Communion). The marriage rite itself occurs within the Mass. For those unfamiliar with Catholic traditions, here are some key things to know:

Standing, Sitting, and Kneeling:

Catholic Mass involves different postures during various parts of the service. Follow along with the congregation, but don’t worry—participate as much or as little as you feel comfortable.

Scripture and Prayers:

Expect readings from the Bible, a homily (sermon), and prayers for the couple and the gathered community. These moments highlight the spiritual meaning of the day.

Communion (Eucharist):

During Communion, Catholics receive the consecrated bread and wine, which we believe becomes the Body and Blood of Christ. Non-Catholics are welcome to come forward for a blessing instead (cross your arms over your chest) or remain seated during this part of the Mass.

Even if you’re not Catholic, your presence is a gift to us, and there are meaningful ways to engage:

• Join in the prayers and songs as you feel comfortable.

• Offer your silent prayers or good wishes for us during key moments of the ceremony.

• Celebrate with joy as we exchange our vows and begin our journey together.

Our wedding will take place in a sacred space, so modest, formal attire is appreciated. Feel free to dress festively while keeping in mind the setting of a church.